Expanding My Wings

It's Been a Long Time

2010-06-23T21:09:00.003-05:00

I can't believe that I haven't written a post since December--6 months--wow!!! I guess I tweet too much and play way too many games on Facebook.

The little guy has finished 2nd grade. I can't believe he is going to be a 3rd grader!!! Writing in cursive, reading so well, and did I mention he earned all A's in all his subjects every grading period!!! I am so proud of him. Baseball consumes us right now. Not only is he playing for the city, but he has been playing for a travel team as well. Hitting homeruns, catching fly balls, and pitching strikes--yes I am bragging because I am his mom!!!

Summer has been going good so far. We have taken advantage of free admission at the Adler Planetarium, Museum of Science and Industry, and the Shedd Aquarium. It has been a hot summer so far that we have spent time at the Waterpark. We love it!!!

Hope to write more this summer. Love you all.

Merry Christmas

2009-12-25T17:30:00.002-06:00

2009-12-06T21:35:00.003-06:00

Oh how I miss my blogging peeps. I'm reading your blogs. I'm reading your tweets. And some of you, I'm keeping in touch with on facebook.

Life is busy.

My nephew of 7 months is still in the hospital. Born at only 23 weeks we hoped he would come home in September. Last month he had a tracheotomy and it would be a great Christmas if he could come home then. Medical bills have hit 1.5 million--it is so crazy.

My father had eye surgery late August which has restricted him from pretty much anything. He can't bend over, lift over 5 pounds, etc. Fortunately, the surgery has been successful and now the doctor wants to do the other eye.

School is going good for the little guy-straight A's! He's doing great in basketball, totally loving it.

Life is busy, but I'm loving it!

Test

2009-11-18T11:31:00.003-06:00

Sending a post from my phone.

New Phone

2009-11-16T20:34:00.003-06:00

I gave up my BlackBerry for the Motorola Cliq. I hated it at first, but after three weeks I'm starting to love it. I think I'm addicted to it more than I was my BlackBerry. Next thing to do is blog from it.

10 Guilty Pleasures

2009-10-20T21:08:00.002-05:00

Twitter
Cheesecake
Starbuck's Venti Caramel Apple Spice
XM Radio
Buying a new Coach purse
French Fries
Highlighting my hair
Scrapbooking
Taking a nap
Watching shows on Bravo

Hello

2009-10-19T21:28:00.002-05:00

Hello to all my peeps-oh, how I have missed you!!! With the start of a school year and football, there has been such little time for me to write. I have been reading your blogs, but not leaving comments and I apologize.

Many of you have celebrated birthdays, so let me send you belated birthday wishes!!!

For those of you going through some stuff, I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

And thanks to all asking where in the world I was--I would never leave without saying goodbye.

Til next time~flygirl

Mmmm...Vanilla

2009-09-15T22:18:00.003-05:00

You Are Vanilla Iced Coffee

You are subtle and modest. You tend to hang back in a crowd and watch what's going on.

You actually have a lot to offer, but you make sure not to boast about it.

You are sweet, loyal, and accepting. You are a true friend to everyone in your life.

You bring out the best in people. You are secure enough to let others shine.

What Flavor Iced Coffee Are You?

Blogthings: Our Quizzes Weren't Written By Bored 12 Year Olds

The Official End of Summer

2009-09-07T21:17:00.002-05:00

Summer was over for me when I went back to school August 17th. I must admit, I envy those schools who start after Labor Day. It officially felt like the end of summer today as the little guy and I enjoyed our last time at the waterpark for the 2009 season. And oh, how I have missed it.

We are both into the swing of things with school. For someone being in the 2nd grade he sure keeps up with getting his homework done at school. It makes it easy for me to just check it each night and only worry about reading, spelling, and memory verse.

Football is going well too. We haven't won a game yet, however each week I see growth. The little guy got the wind knocked out of him Saturday-poor thing-but you should have seen the hit he made prior to him losing his air. Actually, you only needed to hear it. Hopefully he will be able to get some running time with the ball. He's had a hard time accepting a different position this year and not being in the spotlight. I think it is all good-learning and having fun-I'm definitely in the game.

I've been reading your blogs...not always commenting...but I know what's going on. Stay close~flygirl~

Team Mom

2009-08-27T23:04:00.005-05:00

Back in May the little guy decided he wasn't going to play football. It crushed me. He is such the athlete and he did so good when he played last year. But to the little guy, football is a lot of work. Practices begin August 1 and the players practice 10 hours a week. Beginning September 1 it drops down to 6 hours a week. I know football is time consuming and I know it has physical demands, but I just knew that if he didn't sign up that once he found out which of his friends were playing, he would want to play too and it would be too late.

We then found out his baseball coach was going to be one of the coaches. This is a coach that has coached the little guy in a couple of sports through the local Y and city. A coach who wants kids to learn and to have fun while learning. That's when the little guy decided to play, but there was a catch. To guarantee a spot on that coach's team I was going to have to volunteer. So Team Mom, that's me, along with 9 male coaches that I sometimes need to put in their place. It has kept me busy and I have enjoyed every moment. I think the little guy has too.

2009-08-26T22:03:00.002-05:00

I miss all of you!!! I have so much to say and so many pictures to share, but I've been busy,busy,busy.

Are You Ready For Some...

2009-08-04T00:10:00.003-05:00

I am and as team mom, I'm loving it!!!

Hmmmm

2009-07-30T13:16:00.001-05:00

Thanks to Jennifer I checked this out.

You Are Honest

You are pure, moral, and adaptable.

You tend to blend into your surroundings.

Shy on the outside, you're outspoken to your friends.

You believe that you live a virtuous life...

And you tend to judge others with a harsh eye.

As a result, people tend to crave your approval.

The World's Shortest Personality Test

June Events

2009-07-19T23:19:00.004-05:00

June was filled with all kinds of activities.

Train excursion
White Sox game
Cubs Game-the little guy's first game at Wrigley
Waterpark, waterpark, waterpark
2 days at Six Flags
Baseball, baseball, baseball
ESPN Zone
Visiting the munchkin at Comer's Children Hospital.
Open houses
Library
Adler Planetarium
Jersey Boys (me only)
Bike riding

Eventually I will get some pictures posted. Summer is flying by. We both go back to school in one month!

Summer is now All-Star Baseball

2009-07-10T23:44:00.003-05:00

We've been busy trying to enjoy our summer vacation. In the meantime, baseball continues to consume us. Here's my all-star!

Summer is Baseball

2009-06-26T23:33:00.003-05:00

Summer is here and what can I say? I was hoping to have more time to blog, however baseball has taken up much of my time. Just about when the season is over, the little guy makes all-stars, and well, that is more time at the field. I enjoy it, don't get me wrong, however I can't bring my laptop to the field to read blogs, etc. Could I do it on my phone? Sure, but I am too darn lazy to read all your blogs from my crackberry. Thanks to Leigh, I decided to give my blog a much needed lift. I should be in bed cause I need to get up early...as it stands, I won't be getting the eight hours that my body needs. Hope to pay some visits this weekend.

A Steam Train Excursion

2009-06-11T13:51:00.003-05:00

The Munchkin

2009-06-08T13:05:00.004-05:00

I became an auntie on May 6th. The little munchkin decided not to wait in his mother's womb the whole 40 weeks of gestation. He felt 23 weeks would be a good time to come out. Thankfully, he has been doing really well. He will be 5 weeks old on Wednesday. The doctors and nurses are taking great care of him at the University of Chicago Comer's Children Hospital.

2009-06-07T20:32:00.002-05:00

Just a quick check-in. I'll be back to write more.
I have my laptop finally...it was out of commission the past three weeks.

2009-05-10T08:33:00.003-05:00

Happy Mother's Day

Busy

2009-04-29T21:14:00.002-05:00

Busy...busy...busy....it is never-ending.

Basketball at the Y is over, so the focus has finally switched to baseball. I just love being a mom in the stands. I ended up as treat ticket mom this year, so all the kids will like me for sure!

Will post some pictures soon!

RIG (Rest in Grease)

2009-04-14T18:46:00.004-05:00

As of today, I'm on my 4th BlackBerry. The 4th one within the last 16 months. The first two had issues with their ports which would not allow them to charge. They were replaced under warranty at no charge. The third one was fine until last, the night I killed it. For anyone who has a smartphone, you can relate to the addiction it creates. Originally I used the BlackBerry for e-mail, then for texting, and finally for twitterberry. So there on the counter sat my sunset red BlackBerry and there butterflygirl spilled the grease she had just drained from the ground sirloin on the counter all over the phone. I couldn't get upset, it was my fault plus the phone was insured. I filed my claim at 5:30 yesterday evening and had a new phone in my possession by 1:00 this afternoon. Although I had to pay a deductible, it sure beat having to buy myself a new CrackBerry.

2009-04-12T00:35:00.001-05:00

Quiet Again

2009-04-08T20:51:00.002-05:00

The little guy just loves spending time with his grandparents. Once again he is spending the night at their house. The plan is to color eggs tomorrow night while we skip basketball practice. We have a play date scheduled early Friday and then he will be off to his dad's later in the evening for the weekend. Saturday is a basketball game, birthday party, and baseball practice. Easter will be held at my house, and I'll be anxiously awaiting his arrival in the early evening.

Too Quiet

2009-04-06T20:15:00.004-05:00

A Monday night and I am all alone. I usually can handle this on the weekends, but during the week, this is just killing me! The little guy is on spring break this week and Granny took vacation so she could watch him. To make things easier, he is spending the night tonight. I haven't seen him since this morning as I was on my way out the door. It feels so weird, silly I know, but I am unsure what to do with myself. I went out to dinner with my neighbors and then stayed at their home to chat for a while. This is a night when I could go to bed early, enjoy time to myself, and even be productive, but I'm just not feeling it. Maybe it is because he wasn't with me this past weekend. I don't know, but I what I do know is that I definitely can not wait until tomorrow afternoon to see him.

Back to the Swing of Things

2009-03-29T21:44:00.004-05:00

Spring break is over and needless to say it was a nice week off. The weather was great. I treated myself to highlights, a manicure, and a pedicure. The only thing I was not able to indulge in was a massage. Hmmm, maybe I can get one this weekend. I'm on a countdown-9 weeks to go and summer vacation begins! Those waterpark season passes are on my desk, ready to be used. The madness is just about over.

2009-03-23T09:01:00.003-05:00

Hello to all my blogging peeps!
March has been madness for me.
It is spring break and I plan to read all of your blogs and comment.
But first, some spring cleaning!

One Word Answers

2009-03-02T21:11:00.003-06:00

1. Where is your cell phone? bed
2. Your significant other? searching
3. Your hair? brown
4. Your mother? Hispanic
5. Your father? retired
6. Your favorite thing? son
7. Your dream last night? unreal
8. Your favorite drink? water
9. Your dream/goal? prosperity
10. The room you’re in? bedroom
11. Your fear? lightening
12. Where do you want to be in 6 years? here
13. Where were you last night? stores
14. What you’re not? greedy
15. Muffins? banana
16. One of your wish list items? vacation
17. Where you grew up? St.John
18. The last thing you did? read
19. What are you wearing? pajamas
20. Your TV? old
21. Your pet? sleeping
22. Your computer? laptop
23. Your life? content
24. Your mood? mellow
25. Missing someone? yes
26. Your car? Honda
27. Something you’re not wearing? socks
28. Favorite store? Target
29. Summer? waterpark
30. Favorite color? purple
31. Why did you laugh last? son
32. Why did you cry last? ex
33. Who will repost this? questionable
34. A place I go over and over: school
35. Someone who emails me: co-worker
36. Place I would rather be right now: Europe

Thursday Thirteen

2009-02-26T16:14:00.004-06:00

Thirteen things that have kept me from blogging.

Work-although I had a few days off, it has been crazy.
My birthday-we celebrated at a Japanese restaurant.
The little man-making sure homework is done, practicing spelling words, knowing memory verse, and reading every night.
Court-meeting with the attorney and the whole drama of it all puts me in another world.
The ex-yep, trying to deal with him lately leads me to frustration.
Twitter-I tweet a lot throughout the day. It is so much easier to do than blog.
Time-there are not enough hours in the day.
Google Reader-I subscribed to too many blogs.
Stress-do I need to elaborate?
TV-Yes, I'm addicted to several shows.
"Me Time"-that's what keeps me sane.
Laundry-it never ends!
What to write about.

A First of Many

2009-02-16T21:49:00.003-06:00

2009-02-14T11:48:00.002-06:00

Tuesday's Tidbits

2009-02-10T18:13:00.002-06:00

Bit #1: The little guy received his first black eye. It was by mistake of course. One of his classmates was supposed to fake punch him and well, it turned into a real punch. I took a picture but have yet to load it on my computer.

Bit#2: I was sick the entire weekend. Yes, the weekend when it was like 62 degrees on Saturday and all the snow melted. Sunday I went to church and up to the altar for healing. I believe God did such because I woke up Monday completely well.

Bit#3: The little guy has an ear infection. Mild, but enough that he was prescribed some ammoxocillin today. Not sure if he is going to make it to school tomorrow. He's snoring something big right now.

Bit#4: I've been walking on the new high school's indoor track. The little guy walks too, bless his little heart.

Bit#5: I go to court tomorrow for some child support stuff. It's just the pre-trial, however I have already paid over $800 in attorney fees.

Tuesday's Tidbits

2009-02-03T18:54:00.005-06:00

It's hard to believe it is February-the month of love-and my birthday!

I am feeling much better, however I do get an itch in my throat every now and then.
This past weekend we saw Hotel for Dogs. I am not much of a dog fan, but the little guy really wanted to see it. So yeah, it was cute.
Basketball season for the city is over. Our local YMCA is having a session of basketball and his coach will be coaching and asked if the little guy wanted to play. He's highly considering it. Tells you how much he loves his coach.
We've added a hamster to our family. It came home with us today. So it looks kind of cute. The cat seems to be adjusting...he is doing lots of smelling.

That's about it. The weather is crazy...wind blowing...snow falling...and cold, cold, cold!

Well It's Wednesday

2009-01-28T21:19:00.002-06:00

Things have been going really well this past week. I am caught up on blog reading-sorry if I didn't leave a comment-but you all know how that goes. The second semester at school is moving along smoothly. Now if I could just get over this cold. I wake up without a voice and go to bed without a voice. I am a true believer in Vicks and also using a vaporizer, however tonight I have given up both. Yes, it is laziness. I am in bed already, not wanting to fill the vaporizer and I have nice clean pajamas that smell wonderful. I'm sure I will regret it in the morning, but I will take full responsibility.

The little guy is back into his routine here at home. It can be a struggle at times to adjust from one household to the other. He often lacks sleep which he catches up on by the end of the week. Grrr, it can be so frustrating. I scheduled his half birthday party. I never had a party for him when he turned 7 due to football commitments, school starting, and visits with his dad. He is so excited! Keep following for more updates/pictures.

FYI

2009-01-25T21:40:00.003-06:00

What a week it has been and let me just say how glad I am that it is over. I'm still behind but hope to be all caught up by tomorrow. Second semester is definitely in full swing.

I had the weekend to myself-but that never lasts for long.

We have one more week of basketball and then some time off until baseball begins. The little guy is so pumped for it. It is hard to visualize playing baseball with all this snow on the ground, not to mention the bitterly cold weather.

I still have many blogs to visit...I haven't forgotten about you peeps. Hope to get to you soon.

Let's Get Through Winter

2009-01-21T20:13:00.004-06:00

Ahhhhh

2009-01-20T22:13:00.001-06:00

It's been a hectic two days. Giving finals, computing grades, and preparing for the new semester. It's half-way over which means we're half-way closer to summer vacation.

2009-01-18T21:52:00.002-06:00

The weather has been crazy in our neck of the woods. School was cancelled on both Thursday and Friday because of the extreme wind chilling temperatures (way below zero). To be perfectly honest, I can't even tell you how it felt as I didn't leave the house for two days. The little guy and I lounged around in our pajamas, played the Wii, and watched movies. Productivity was a not a word in this house. Pathetic, I know. However, I stand by my philosophy of the time I spend with my son. Soon will be the days of no longer wanting to be with mom-I'm gonna get all I can while I can.

Tuesday's Tidbits

2009-01-13T21:59:00.003-06:00

The week will be half-way over when I wake up tomorrow. Finals are the next two days. My head is spinning nonstop.

It is freezing cold. Temperatures are below zero tonight-add the windchill-and it is extremely cold. Predictions for tomorrow are for thirty below-brrrrr.

The little guy is still dealing with stomach issues. I'm sure we'll be making another trip to the doctor, but until then, I ask that you keep him in your prayers.

A man behind us at the grocery store bought a candy bar for the little guy. The kind gesture, which was totally unexpected, is still perplexing him.

2009-01-11T15:19:00.002-06:00

I suppose this is something that will never end-a son not wanting to go spend the weekend with his father. His excuse is that he will miss his mother. My interpretation is that there is not enough quality time and I will leave it at that. It breaks my heart that the little guy feels this way. I feel sorry that his father will never know or even understand his own son.

Thursday Thirteen

2009-01-08T21:53:00.002-06:00

13 things about this week:

I started the week with a nice, clean car...the snow ruined that.
The little guy and I made it through this whirlwind of a week.
It has been the busiest week we have had in a long time.
I feel bad because my little guy is struggling with a few of his spelling words for tomorrow's test.
He's had stomach problems all week.
Actually the problems started mid-December, but are now more apparent.
I adore our physician. It is always a pleasure to see her when we're not feeling well.
I wish my son could be home with me this weekend so I could monitor him, you know the way us moms do.
Stressed about getting paperwork together for my attorney.
My attorney rocks-in and out-no BS.
Judged homecoming activities at school.
Had some weird ass dreams.
I have become obsessed with Twitter lately.

Slow Starting

2009-01-06T17:30:00.005-06:00

We are surviving going back to the real world. It is nice to have that routine and structure, but neither the little guy nor myself were truly ready. Quite honestly, I am just not a morning person. If I could start my job late in the morning or even early in the afternoon, I would. There are still three more days before the weekend. Is it wrong for me to already be thinking of Saturday? As always, there is so much that needs to be done however there is so little time.

No Regrets

2009-01-02T23:26:00.002-06:00

It feels as if the last two weeks have just flown by. Being out of school meant being out of routine. Being out of routine meant not having any structure to the day. Not having any structure to the day meant chaos. Chaos meant uncertainty. But in the end, there are not any regrets. The little guy will only be seven once. The time that we spend now can not be made up in the future. It is times like these that I cherish because I know that these uncertain moments I spend with my son are nurturing, educational, and full of love not only to him but to me as well. I may not be ready to go back to work on Monday, but I am ready for a little routine, a little structure, and a little certainty.

2009-01-01T00:00:00.000-06:00

Happy Blog-versary!

2008-12-29T23:19:00.005-06:00

I never imagined that when I started this blog three years ago that I would still be writing as well as maintaining the relationships with my fellow peeps. It has been a joy to share all of my thoughts, experiences, and pictures with all of you. As I have let you in my life, I appreciate that you have let me in yours. The tone of my blog may have changed over the years. The frequency of my posts can be sporadic. The comments I leave you may be minimal. But all in all, I never left. I have continued this journey for the connection that I have felt with each one of you. I am still expanding my wings as a single mom and enjoying the flight through motherhood all alone. Thank you for reading!

With Much Love,
~flygirl~

Christmas Recap, How About Some More?

2008-12-28T18:40:00.002-06:00

I hosted Christmas dinner this year since my parent's house is in clutter as my father has built the kitchen cabinets and is now in the process of staining. I have a small family and this year we went the easy way. My sister-in-law purchased a ham, my brother fried some chicken, and my mom baked some wings. I made the green bean casserole, my mom handled the mashed potatoes, Heavenly Ham supplied the mac and cheese, and unfortunately the yams were from the can. My brother decided to use flavored bread crumbs for the chicken and to my mom and I it tasted like fish. My brother gave my mom a recipe for some sauce for dipping the wings and she used it as a marinade-thank goodness for Sweet Baby Rays. In addition to all the disaster that was occurring, my mom forgot about the rolls and by forget, I mean she forgot to take them out of the freezer to let rise. Good thing I purchased some Hawaiian Rolls on my fourth trip to the grocery store a couple of days prior. All in all, we enjoyed our eats.

Leave it to my brother to want to open all of the little man's Wii games. By all, we're talking a total of eight: Mario Kart, Mario & Sonic at the Olympic Games, Rayman Raving Rabbids TV Party, Lego Batman, Guitar Hero World Tour Band, Wii Music, Family Party: 30 Great Games, and Namco Museum Remix. (The last three listed were from my brother.) Hours later, the little guy asked when they (his aunt & uncle) were going to leave. I think he just wanted some mommy time. My brother got the hint and left. That left me with the little guy playing Mario Kart and Lego Batman until 1AM. I couldn't believe the little guy was still hanging on.

My brother and I surprised my parents with a GPS. My brother told my mom at Thanksgiving that he wanted to get his wife one and saw a great deal on Costco's website. Since I let me membership lapse when I divorced and my brother does not have one, my mom ordered it for him, had it delivered to her house, and she even opened it up to check it out. One day she gave it to me so I could take it to my brother. I remember her saying how she wanted to get her and my father one (if only she had listened to me and got one in her car at the time of purchase). Needless to say, they were excited and thankful.

Christmas Recap

2008-12-26T19:52:00.004-06:00

Each year spending Christmas Eve without the little guy gets easier and easier. This year I was able to take him to an early Christmas Eve service and then I dropped him off to his father. I had the evening to myself to get things ready for Christmas Day. After a trip to the video store I headed home for the last items to be wrapped, a house to be cleaned, and food to be prepared. I didn't sleep well that night-maybe it was my subconscious mind having Christmas Eve flashbacks-I don't know-but 11:00 Christmas morning couldn't come soon enough. Here's why:

Merry Christmas

2008-12-24T00:35:00.004-06:00

2008-12-22T21:57:00.002-06:00

Ah, I am feeling so much better now. Thank you for all your well wishes. Amazing what rest can do to the body. It was all worth the mess I had to clean up from some little guy eating pop tarts, lunchables, and anything he could get his hands on. He at least asked before he ate them. I was just happy that he was taking care of himself so mommy could rest. When it came to dinner though, I had to make him something, he told me he couldn't cook. Dinner however consisted of hamburger helper...the single serving size...the one you mix with water and zap in the microwave. Call me pathetic, I know. I just need to teach him how to read the measuring cups and I'll be set for next time.

2008-12-20T22:04:00.004-06:00

I am so under the weather...queasy stomach, body aches...

I just feel awful.

Thursday Thirteen

2008-12-18T22:18:00.004-06:00

13 things that must get done before Christmas:

mail the cards
wrap the presents
have the little guy take his letter for Santa to the Post Office
make some cookies
purchase 2 gift cards (from the same place)
have the little guy pick out something for Gramps
get holiday dishes ready
fix up the tree the cat keeps messing up
place the bows back on the gifts since the cat takes them off
wrap more presents
clean the house
attend Christmas Eve service
leave out milk and cookies for Santa and carrots for his reindeer

2008-12-15T21:16:00.002-06:00

So I posted a Thursday Thirteen, however there were only 12 items listed-oops. It dawned on me this morning when I was trying to figure out how I accomplished 8 of 13. I feel like such a dork.

2008-12-14T21:45:00.002-06:00

As for my 13 things to be done this weekend...I accomplished only 8 of them-and yes-the shaving of the legs was 1 of the 8.

I have lots of wrapping to do. It surely did not help that I bought more presents because I was done, yes, done. I am just a giver, always have been.

As for the Christmas cards...trying for Tuesday.

Scrapbooking, well, I think that is going to have to wait until Christmas break.

The same goes for the sorting out of papers. If I'm able to get home early during the week, I may be able to start on that project.

5 more days and then vacation!

Thursday Thirteen

2008-12-11T22:48:00.002-06:00

13 things to be done this weekend:

Getting haircuts
Sleeping in
Little man's basketball game
Bull's game
Touring new high school
Wrapping presents
Finishing up Christmas cards
Laundry
Shaving legs-yes, it's been a while
Purchasing gifts for angel tree
Scrapbook
Go through some papers-file or shred

Weekend in Review

2008-12-07T20:55:00.004-06:00

Ah, where in the world did the weekend go?

Friday night the little guy and I went out with a friend of his to see Bolt and redeem his Book-it at Pizza Hut. We then went over to Kohl's so the little guy could find something for his father and grandparents. Granny was easy-pjs, Gramps, well, not so easy. We may just need to hit Costco for a gift card.

Saturday morning we woke up to snow and had to be at the school for an early basketball game. After making numerous shots, his coach told the little guy he needed to be the all-time passer for the rest of the game. After making two more shots, he then listened to his coach. It was Kid's Workshop at Home Depot, so we quickly made it over there for the little guy to have some Gramps bonding time. He then went home with Gramps and I ran some errands. In the evening we attended church service.

Today, we went to Chicago for our annual Santa visit. I miss Marshal Field's-Macy's just isn't the same. We had breakfast at the Walnut Room on the 7th floor and then waited forever to see Santa. Never, in eight years, have we had to wait so long to see the man in red. Many people, who have this same long-time tradition as us, couldn't believe the wait either. The little guy asked for Mario Kart, Guitar Hero-World Tour, and some race cars. We also took our picture for our Christmas cards, so I hope to have those out in the mail by the next weekend.

Enjoy your week!

Thursday Thirteen

2008-12-04T21:34:00.003-06:00

13 things about my face.

I have my mother's oval to heart face shape.
I have my father's eyes, brows, and mouth.
The nose comes from my mother.
I have freckles-lots of freckles.
It tends to be oily-won't that help produce less wrinkles?
My big brown eyes are breathtaking.
The plump, juicy lips give sweet, soft kisses.
It always has a smile.
I've been told I have straight, white, white teeth however I don't think they are white enough.
The dynamic facial line in between my brows drives me crazy!
It breaks out more now than when I was a teenager.
It always has make-up on (especially the eyes) in public.
May someday want/need some botox.

Tis the Season

2008-12-02T21:53:00.002-06:00

In almost three weeks Christmas will be here.

We put up the tree on Friday and that cat of ours won't stay out of it! Mind you, he never even touched it last year! He broke two ornaments within the first twenty-four hours. Today he broke number three. About half of the ornaments are shatterproof, however I am tempted to purchase some more tomorrow for my own sanity. You can never have enough ornaments for a tree, plus they are on sale.

The Christmas shopping is about done. I know I will continue to buy the little man stuff when I am out and about, but for the most part he's set. My brother and I purchased a GPS for our parents so they are set. I have just a few gift cards to purchase and the little man still needs to get something for his father, then it will be wrap, wrap, and wrap!

The little guy's school is having a play in two weeks. All the first graders are angels. Luckily Granny sews and is off this week. She has agreed to make him a costume. He has been practicing his parts every night. It's too cute.

Sunday will be our annual visit to Macy's, once known as Marshall Field's on State, to see Santa. We couldn't do it this past weekend as the little guy was with his father. The little man loves going to Chicago...we're trying to agree on a restaurant...something different...I may have to use bribery.

Thankful

2008-11-29T22:00:00.003-06:00

There are so many things to be thankful for in my life...however the most important one would be my family.
How could I not be thankful for this little guy?

2008-11-27T01:07:00.003-06:00

I'm Over It

2008-11-23T11:44:00.005-06:00

Things are good, well as good as they can be at this time.

I should have a pre-trial next month and if the matter isn't settled then, the trial is set for February.

Yes, it all has to do with my baby's daddy.

On the flip side, now he is taking me to court. He wants to modify child support, and by modify I mean lessen. He claims I make more than him. I guess he forgot that he owes me a decent amount of money for his child. In the end, my attorney will get all the money that was meant for his son.

Oh well. I'm over it. It is all in God's hands. Thank you peeps for all your kind words of encouragment.

2008-11-07T22:00:00.002-06:00

My life has been stressed lately, really stressed. My happy,optimistic self has shed many tears in these last two weeks. Each day I try to be strong in front of my little guy as well as at my job, but I feel my body taking a toll. In the end I know that it is going to be ok, however I just need someone to hold me and tell me those words.

Thursday Thirteen

2008-10-30T20:47:00.004-05:00

Thirteen things that occurred this month.

Basketball started for the little guy.
Parent-teacher conferences.
A field trip to a local farm at one of our national parks.
The end of the Pop Warner football season.
Homecoming events.
Cleaning up of many leaves.
Carving of pumpkins and roasting of pumpkin seeds.
Flu shots for both me and the little man.
An oil change that led to needing front brake pads that led to replacing the rotors.
House sitting for the neighbor as well as taking care of their cat.
Fall break from school.
Being without my Blackberry since the port malfunctioned. All the loaners were out. I hope my new one arrives tomorrow!
More downs than ups.

Bumpy Road

2008-10-28T00:47:00.003-05:00

I have been on a bumpy road for quite some time.
I can't wait until it smooths out.

Bits and Pieces

2008-10-19T21:32:00.001-05:00

Parent-teacher conferences were ten days ago. I'm happy to report that the little guys is doing extremely well.
Football is over! Well, almost. We have a bowl game this coming weekend. Only two days of practice-yes!
The little man has a great coach for basketball-the one he had when he played at the Y. Should I mention, my little guy had a little crush on his daughter? In fact, I think he still does.
School pictures were last week. Thanks to the assistant who passed out combs so my son could comb down his gel-filled hair. I don't even want to see the picture.
Spent Saturday cleaning up the leaves, let me reinforce the cleaning up, since someone was jumping in them.
There was a full moon this past week, and wow, did a lot of stuff happen!
Only a three day school week-hooray!

By the way...I've been lurking on your blogs. Have a great week!

2008-10-12T22:00:00.002-05:00

I don't need to explain to all of you about another crazy week that I have had, but I can share that I am well rested for the week to come. The struggles continue, however I strive on pushing myself to overcome. Sometimes I just get so tired of having to be strong. When those moments arise, I reflect on the past and remind myself that I am who I am and that everything will be fine. Although I will never be the butterflygirl before divorce, I will continue to be a happy, loving, and giving person.

On The Go

2008-10-06T23:12:00.003-05:00

On the go, on the go, on the go....does it ever stop?

Once that bell rang Friday afternoon I was out the door and so began the weekend of non-stop events.

Friday:

Homecoming parade 4:00
Haircuts 4:30
Football game 7:00

Saturday:

9:30 Home Depot kid's workshop
11:00 Open house at the safety village
12:00-2:00 Dick's Sporting Goods (basketball shoes) and Kohl's (dress for homecoming dance)
2:30-4:30 Afternoon snooze
5:00 Grandparents pick up the little guy
5:30-6:30 Get ready for the dance
7:00-10:00 Chaperone homecoming dance

Sunday:

8:15 Arrive at football field
9:15 Football game begins (little man scored TD)
11:45-2:30 Run the time clock at football field
4:00 Take the little guy to see Beverly Hills Chihuahuas
6:00-6:30 Stop for a few groceries
7:00 Begin laundry...ugh

The start of today was not good...not good at all. Let's hope I make it through the rest of the week.

I just want someone to take care of me for once. Is that too much to ask?

Thursday Thirteen

2008-10-02T22:37:00.002-05:00

13 Things I love about October:

Cooler temperatures
Caramel apples
The sound of crackling leaves
Decorating for fall
Candy corn
Pumpkin patches
Hot apple cider
Bonfires
Smells of cinnamon
The World Series
End of football for the little man
Fall break
Halloween

He's My Boy

2008-09-29T21:54:00.003-05:00

What's a mom to do...

leave school within 20 minutes of the last bell,
pick up her son earlier than expected,
take him unexpectedly to get his Halloween costume (Indiana Jones),
let him stay home from football practice,
cook him a good pork chop and macaroni and cheese,
help him learn his memory verse,
sit next to him as he does his homework,
watch him draw on his student of the day paper,
read him his book from the school library,
test him on his spelling words,
cuddle him tight and kiss him goodnight with words of love.

All Alone

2008-09-28T21:32:00.002-05:00

The struggle of being a single parent has been weighing me down lately. Struggles that make me wonder if I can continue to do this on my own. Why is it getting tougher and not easier? The pain I feel for what that little guy has gone and will continue to go through breaks my heart. It was a rough weekend for him, so it will be a rough week for me. Grrr.

Wonderful Wednesday

2008-09-24T22:00:00.002-05:00

It's mid-week and all is well.
Stress levels are down.
My child is back to himself.
What more could I ask for?

Sunday Night

2008-09-21T21:22:00.002-05:00

Amazingly enough, the weekend is over. I wish I could say I got the TLC I needed, but the fact of the matter is I did not.

Friday evening consisted of a group of woman, alcohol, food, and candles!

Saturday, the little guy had a football game and a rough one it was. His team got clobbered which was the first time this season. Also, the little man got hurt three different times. Oh, it was so hard to sit in the stands and see him laying on the ground.

This morning was spent at church ministering to young children. The afternoon was spent playing the Wii with my parents. I don't remember them playing video games with me when I was younger, but that's ok, I love watching them interact with their grandson.

A full week lies ahead. Looking forward to a much slower paced series of events.

TLC

2008-09-17T21:11:00.004-05:00

I'm worn out. It is Wednesday, feels like a Monday, and it is a only a 4 day work week. I need some TLC.

Flooded

2008-09-14T23:55:00.000-05:00

Due to the non-stop rain there has been much flooding in the area. All that flooding has now led to the cancellation of many area schools. Just what I needed, a three day weekend. Fortunately for me, my house is water free. I survived the horrendous driving conditions throughout my city. Now if only I was able to get one more day to myself...all alone.

It's Me

2008-09-13T13:31:00.002-05:00

I made it through another week. I've been reading everyone's blogs, however forgive me as my commenting has been sporadic. It's Saturday and I'm taking a break from cleaning to let you all know that I am here. I'm by myself for the weekend and it feels great. No sporting events to attend, so I may get all the laundry done today. Woohoo!

TGIF

2008-09-05T22:01:00.004-05:00

Three weeks of being back to work and I am exhausted! The beginning of a school year is always a big adjustment, however this year has probably been the hardest ever for me. Lots of changes and not enough time in a day to fix things that need to be fixed. With football practices down to three nights a week, my evenings still feel completely gone. Football for the little man has been great and I am so proud of him. So proud that I'll end with these pictures.

Finally...It's The Weekend

2008-08-30T10:53:00.005-05:00

Finally the weekend. The days have been busy. School and football. School and football. School and football. School and football are going great for the little guy. For me, well, I am exhausted. Between new software and new laws, new students and new rules...my days are hectic. My nights are busy watching my QB practice and mingling with all the moms. The girls night out won't come soon enough. This weekend alone will be refreshing.

1st Day of 1st Grade

2008-08-21T21:12:00.004-05:00

Random Things

2008-08-18T22:13:00.002-05:00

We got in our last big adventure for summer yesterday with a trip to Chicago. This time the grandparents joined us. We walked down the Mag Mile, went up to the 94th floor on the John Hancock, ate brunch at The Cheesecake Factory, went to the Hersey store, of course stopped at the Lego store, and lastly ventured through Millennium Park.

I must say, I didn't do too bad when the alarm went off at 5:20am. I only hit the snooze button once. I think I stood in the shower for quite a while though. I just hate getting up in the mornings-I am so not a morning person. I had a very productive day, however there were no students. Tomorrow could be another story. I hate to admit though, it felt good to be back. It is always nice to see everyone and catch up with each another.

The football coach handed out copies of the offensive plays tonight at practice. The little guy went over them before going to bed. He really feels like a QB now. It all makes sense to me after seeing it on paper. Yes, I am a visual learner. Let's just hope the little guy is able to lead his team to victory. Four more practices before the O'Rama.

Are You Ready For Some Football?

2008-08-16T00:15:00.004-05:00

Be prepared...for all my posts in the weeks to come will more than likely be football related because that is all that is happening in our lives right now.

Monday was the first practice with full gear. I was hoping it would go well because the previous Friday did not due to the little man's helmet feeling too tight on his head. He claimed it was hurting his brain, and we just couldn't have that happening. Needless to say, he got over that hurdle-thank goodness.

On to tackling. At first, I think he was afraid to make contact. It had to have been the sound. I'm sure the sound I was hearing from 5-7 year olds is nothing that goes on in high school, college, or even pro-football. Nonetheless, I noticed him being hesitant. However with each drill, his aggressiveness would increase. Good, another hurdle accomplished. But wait, how am I gonna handle it in a real game? I think I am going to need a hand to hold on to. Any takers?

The little guy didn't get his number of choice for his jersey and he was really upset. He wanted to be a wide receiver but he is quarterback. Yes, I need another hand to hold on to. Any more takers? He's not too upset with the QB position, but he did have a problem putting his hands so close to the center's, um, private area. Did I mention he has to call out plays? No I am not kidding. I Right, Tight Right, Pitch 38...I don't even know if that is the right way of saying it. Ok coaches, are you giving mom a copy of the playbook so we can study these? I'm sure the coaches thought I was crazy, but I was serious. They don't know how that little man's brain works. He will process those plays in his head over and over again. He will know their names. He will ask me questions that I won't be able to answer if I don't have a copy of that playbook. Yes, they are giving mom a copy-thank goodness.

Scrimmage next Saturday. Oh my.

Oh My, He's 7!

2008-08-12T23:20:00.000-05:00

Only One Week Left

2008-08-10T19:25:00.003-05:00

This will be the last week of vacation. Where did summer go?

I officially have to report to work on Monday, August 18th. The little guy starts school on August 21st. We will both need time to adjust to new curriculums, routines, and each other.

It seems like yesterday when I wrote about school being out for summer. Nevertheless, many activities occupied us during this summer vacation.

many sunny days at the water park
attending open houses
a trip to Disney World
movie dates (Get Smart, Kung Fu Panda, Wall-E, Space Chimps)
a day spent at Lincoln Park Zoo
viewing the air show on the beach
playing in little league baseball games
attending birthday parties
exploring the Chicago Children's Museum
touring the Chicago River by boat
enjoying cook-outs
bike riding and walks
playing at the park
getting fit
tweeting
playing Pop Warner football
going to vacation bible school
exploring in Millennium Park

Thursday Thirteen

2008-08-07T20:39:00.004-05:00

13 Things I'm Learning About Pop Warner Football

Practices are 10 hours a week until school starts.
Once school begins, practices will be 6 hours per week.
Practices have been fun so far.
Volunteer dads are awesome.
A team mom is vital.
Paperwork, paperwork, and more paperwork.
Discipline is good and necessary.
Girdles, equipment, uniforms...where does it end?
They are learning.
Stock up on Gatorade.
They so far have had the most fund raisers of all sports the little man has played.
The little man loves it and so do I.
The little man sleeps good at night.

Ladies' Man

2008-08-05T22:35:00.003-05:00

As we were watching TV last night, Miley Cyrus appeared and I teased the little man that he liked her.

His response...are you ready?

I only like one girl and that is you.

Which was then followed by a big hug and kiss.

Suiting Sunday

2008-08-03T22:19:00.002-05:00

I Will Survive

2008-08-01T23:08:00.003-05:00

I survived the first football practice. They certainly did a lot more than I thought they would. It was just another realization that my little boy is growing up.

Pre-Season

2008-07-30T21:51:00.002-05:00

August 1st marks the official start for the Pop Warner Football season. Practice is Friday from 5:30-7:30 and will continue daily (Monday-Friday) for the next two weeks. I knew when I signed him up back in April the weeks before school were going to be intense. I just can't believe it is here already. We picked up his equipment last Friday. He got his physical Monday. I purchased him a practice jersey which has his name on the back on Tuesday. Now it's time for me to pray that he has a safe and fun season.

After three years of flag football I felt it was time for the little guy to move up to the next level. I spoke to several coaches and other adults who were aware of his physical capacity as well as his knowledge of the game. Each one, including those familiar with our Pop Warner Football league, felt he would be just fine. He is extremely excited, however I am not sure if he is fully prepared, but then again he never ceases to amaze me.

Wisdom

2008-07-27T23:59:00.002-05:00

As I get older and experience life, I learn many things.

I don't hold grudges.
Forgiveness comes more easily.
I have found peace within my heart.
Don't sweat the small stuff.
I take circumstances in stride.
No time for a pity party.
I see the glass as half-full.
Who cares what people think.

Thursday Thirteen

2008-07-24T23:51:00.000-05:00

Thirteen things we did in Chicago today.

Rode the city bus-$5 unlimited pass for me and the little guy was free.
Went to Lincoln Park Zoo-it's always free!
Felt some raccoon fur-really soft.
Touched a snake-it wasn't so bad.
Relaxed in a shady spot-ate lunch brought from home.
Rode the paddle boats-got my workout in.
Went to Nike Town-just so the little guy could say he's been there.
Went to the Lego Store-found a 50% off Star Wars Lego.
Ate at ESPN Zone-that smokehouse burger was to die for.
Spent $25 playing games at ESPN Zone-took an hour and a half to spend it all.
Went to Millennium Park-quick visit because we needed to catch the train.
Took almost 100 pictures-love the digital camera.
Walked a total of 17301 steps-that should make up for that smokehouse burger.

What Word?

2008-07-22T22:55:00.007-05:00

Today as I was taking a weekly walk with a friend around a track, which happens to have a park, my son was approached by bigger boys. These bigger boys, maybe about 10, used the "f" word. Yep, they dropped the "f" bomb. Now I know I can not protect my child from everything and that things are going to happen and that things are going to be said/heard, but what flabbergasted me the most was how my son told me of the occurrence.

Obviously, he told me the boys were saying bad words. Usually that means dumb, stupid, or even shut-up. So when I asked him what they said, his response was the "f" word. Now, I am thinking what in the world does my 6 year old know about the "f" word. Before I could even finish that thought he said it, "f_ _ _ing". Oh crap, tell me I did not hear what I thought I heard. But once again, before I could finish that thought he said it again, "f_ _ _ ing". How in the world did he know I needed some clarification? He did let me know they called him dumb, but my mind was still playing back his little voice saying "f_ _ _ing".

Getting Fit

2008-07-21T00:05:00.004-05:00

I had no idea I was going to have to share the Wii Fit with someone else in this household. It's not a big deal, I just have to wait until he is in bed before I have a chance of getting fit without any interruptions. I would have to say the step aerobics as well as boxing are my favorites. I just tried the yoga today and it reminded me how much I miss yoga and how much my body lacks flexibility.

Getting Fit

2008-07-16T22:29:00.003-05:00

I have had it less than 10 hours and I love it!

At the Beach

2008-07-13T22:43:00.002-05:00

Thursday Thirteen

2008-07-03T21:14:00.002-05:00

13 things we did today...

Stopped at Dunkin Donuts
Got haircuts
Dropped a package at a friend's house
Quick trip to Kohls
Shopped at Walmart
Went to the BMV
Dropped a package at another friend's house
Bought some fireworks
Dropped a package at another friend's house
Stopped by former daycare to borrow some neat scrapbooking stuff
Washed the car
Returned books to library
Movie night-Star Wars

Earning Wings

2008-07-01T22:26:00.003-05:00

At the airport waiting to board the plane.

1st time flier/1st time pilot.

Getting all comfortable.

There are his wings!

Welcome Back

2008-06-29T20:24:00.003-05:00

I'm back from Florida!
Part business, part vacation.
Some things I can tell, some things I can not.
However, it is good to be home.

Thursday Thirteen

2008-06-19T22:31:00.002-05:00

13 Things Coming Up:

Baseball practice tomorrow for the little guy.
Cook-out Saturday 11-2 with the investors from the children's ministry.
Baseball game Saturday at 2:00.
Graduation open house Saturday from 2-6.
Birthday party Saturday between 12 and 5.
Leave for the airport to go to Florida 6:00 AM Sunday.
Attend a conference being held on Walt Disney World Sunday-Wednesday.
Enjoy a breakfast with Disney characters.
Soak up some Florida sun at the resort pool.
Enjoy the nightlife atmosphere on Disney.
Have one magical day after another at the Disney parks.
Leave Florida on Friday for home sweet home.
Last baseball game of the season for the little guy on June 28.

Happy Father's Day!

2008-06-15T19:43:00.002-05:00

Crazy

2008-06-09T23:32:00.005-05:00

It hasn't been one week yet, but that little man of mine was driving me crazy today.

School's Out For Summer

2008-06-04T23:13:00.003-05:00

It is finally here-summer vacation. I was done with school yesterday while the little man finished up today. He has made plans for us to go to the waterpark tomorrow. The temperature will be perfect, however I'm hoping the storms will hold out.

We celebrated the beginning of summer as well as the promotion to 1st grade with lunch at Red Robin today. I also splurged and got him a Webkinz when I was at the Hallmark store yesterday. I couldn't resist the striped lizard, he was just too cute! He decided to name him Indiana Jones. Now I can go and get the pink dragon for myself-she is too cute! She might look better in the purple dress that I originally bought for my schnauzer.

On a side note, the Cubs just lost.

Weekend Update

2008-05-26T15:38:00.004-05:00

Well the weekend started with seeing Indiana Jones, which now will be the theme for the little man's birthday party, so he says.

I finished cleaning out the garage on Saturday. My parents came over to help. I suppose they didn't want me to end up in the ER again. My dad also put up a new ceiling fan in my living room. By the end of the day, I was exhausted. So exhausted, that I was in bed by 9:30 and slept until 9:15 the following morning.

Sunday was very relaxing. I went to a late service at church, so I recorded the Indy 500. When I got home from church I started to watch NASCAR,but fell asleep for a couple of hours. My body must have really needed the rest. I went to bed after midnight, but woke up about 10:30 today. My body must be wiped out from all of this end of the year stuff going on at school. The kids only have 4 1/2 days while I have 5 1/2.

So today I was able to plant some flowers, cut the hedges, and clean up some outside. I'm doing laundry right now. I have less than 4 hours to myself before I need to pick up that little guy of mine.